Pregnancy

Eh... b4 Marpig continues:

Sorry XT!! Just finished my sentence in the previous bloggie entry!! Tell me how much is the Aspen the next time u go check it ok? :P

Ding!! so wat is it tt Marpig should have bloggied but havent? Meanwhile, continue with story...

Read an article on more and more women in Singapore are not considering giving birth. The survey tt "they" did cite 2 major reasons:

1) Women with tertiary education don 12 change their lifestyle
2) Women with less education has financial difficulty

Ok. This may sound bias (but hey, the topic and reasons were bias in nature!!)

Why is it tt itz always the women getting the blame for ageing population and low birth rates, huh? Wat? Cos only females can give birth? So? We don conceive by masturbation leh. A crude way of pointing ths ax but itz true mah.

Marpig personally think the survey questions were technically wronged and/or bias.

1st, the survey questions must have only provided a few choices but may not include the real reason for women who are surveyed to pick. So boh bian, got to choose smth. So choose the most politically correct one lor. End up the results are bias and "manipulated"

Whether women get more education or no $ does affect our choices in giving birth but maybe only as high as 30%?

Itz quite simple actually.

Believe it or not guys, itz the poor std of men now. Of cos, there must be some SNAGs ard but rare.

Itz quite a prick in the menz ego Marpig must say but face it.

Therez totally nth wrong with women having more education. It just equipped us with a clearer mind to select the best. Hey, if guys want to select the best, women have the right too mah. Tell Marpig, is the contrary true? Do more educated guys don 12 have babies? No right?! So, women with more education don 12 give birth? Crap.

Women facing financial diffculties so don 12 give birth. Well, their husbands leh? Why cant it be men facing financial difficulties don want their wives to give birth leh? Plus, if a married couple wants a baby, both pays mah. Plus now got baby bonus.

Really, itz time tt the survey faced up to reality and stop leaning the blame on women. Marpig would totally agree tt most women now don 12 get married too young. But having babies only comes after marriage.

Reasons why women don really 12 get married are mostly due to:

1) Poor current stds of guys avail.
2) Too clever to be tricked
3) Financially and emotionally independent
4) Career
5) Fear of committments
6) Inherited fairy tale dream; always on the lookout for a Prince Charming
7) Afraid of being hurt; especially when pple now don take relationships seriously
Hmmm... all the above from Marpigz own perspective... not sure if others share similar feelings... (feedback pls!!)

Marpig recently discovered why she is still SNA. TTz bcos she hasnt met a guy who is like her (itz said tt we normally look for partners tt are similar to ourselves) and who can (and this is impt!!) make Marpig feel dependent.

Xplanation. As the yrs goes by and as many of Marpigz frens noe, Marpig am so independent. Wat is there tt Marpig cannot do on her own? So much so tt alot of guys she met arent special. Itz like wat most guys can do, Marpig can too, and maybe even more.

Cooking, household chores, taking care of herself and others, decisive, changing light bulbs, carrying heavy ths, getting dirty, going to sites, blah blah blah. Tom boyish you say. But Marpig can carry herself well in meetings, social functions as well as stunning pple by being stunning in gowns and make up (hahahahahhaa *bengz*!!) Too independent. Which is why Marpig need a guy who can come along and make Marpig feels like a lady who needs to be taken care of. Not a MCP but sm1 so gentle yet strong and similar to Marpig who can take care of himself as well as others.

At the moment, Marpig met 2 guys tt are wat Marpig am looking for. 1st, is Marpigz BIL. TTz why Marpig am so glad Marpigz sis got sm1 so nice to take care of her. (Marpig noe Marpigz dad am happy and tt Marpigz mom will also be so happy and glad too!! :D) The other is one of Marpigz colleague. But too bad, hez attached!! Duh.

Sigh, Marpig am so independent and can take care of pple so much as tt even Marpigz colleagues want Marpig to be their godsister and god mom respectively wor. Kao.

Currently there seems to be another 3rd person... think he is quite all right... ok, in our next blog!!