Sunday, June 20

Jurassic Coast (Part 3 - Durdle Door & Oswald's Bay)

After a few breaks in btw, itz time to continue with Jurassic Coast. The reason why Marpig wanted to go to the Jurassic Coast was because of the Durdle Door. Dont really noe how she chanced upon it in the 1st place but who cares?!

As it is...There is a similarity btw the Brits and Marpig; they like to give ths names. Be it a rock, a bay, a cliff, etc. U name it, they have it!! And apparently, Swyre Head is a chalk cliff while White Nose is another... well, chalk cliff

Going westwrds (refer to orientation map in Part 2) of Lulworth Cove and the Stair Hole, Marpig came to Oswald's Bay aka Man-of-War Bay locally
As seen from pic above, the bay encloses the Man-of-War cove. With the waves amplifying as they hit the beach due to the rocks in the middle, the cove does reminds one of a fan-shaped seashell, no? Maybe Marpig thinks too much of seafood... :P
Standing on top of the cliff above the bay and looking towards the west, one can actually spot Durdle Door in the dist!! Itz slightly on top of the pic, slightly off to the right of the centre line!! Not the mountain la!!

Presenting~~ Durdle Door!!
Durdle Door is a natural limestone arch. Think the long big rock which the arch was formed has a name... but cant remember. Anyw, the name "Durdle" is derived from the Old English word, "thirl", meaning "pierce" or "bore/drill"

Looking to the right of the Durdle Door while facing the sea, itz another of those vertical white chalk cliffs...Putting them together, one gets a bigger picture!! Although not panoramic, but hey, managed to capture the cliff, Durdle Door, the Cow and the Calf (the rocks out in the sea) in a single pic!! Give sm "face" for the effort can?! :P
No no no, itz not a gravestone *squinting eyes to read*

Anyw, itz time to show off silly pics again!!
背影 no. 1
背影 no.2; pretending to climb a really loose chalky wall wherez therez nth to grip onto (u noe itz not a cliff!!)背影 no.3; Frens took this pic without Marpig noeing until they passed the pic to Marpig. Only 1 trip with Marpig and they already 太了解 Marpig... 这是不对的!! hahahahaha

Climbing the steep stairs back up to the mountain from Durdle Door, Marpig spotted a leetle snail (she always spots such teeny weeny thingies) on the side, trying to hide from the birds flying above. Being as curious as Nemo, Marpig stopped and observed it for a good few mins. Watz there to see u asked? Well, Marpig loves observing nature (Marpigz sis will say shez wasting time!!) cos 1 can learn so much from their behaviours!!

Anyw, the snail (quite an active one too) was swaying itz head constantly (in frantic?) maybe in an attempt to find smth which it can take shelter. Felt so fascinated by it like a child would tt Marpig cant resist the temptation to take a close-up pic of it :)

More than Brushing the Teeth

Woke up on Father's Day (20th June, is it the same in the Leetle Red Dot?) and was brushing the teeth when the pot of pale yellow Petunia came into view on the kitchen window sill

Flowers are happily blooming and smiling in the fine sunshine, both dead and alive. Why dead? Well, from the very 1st flower tt bloomed (see previous bloggie entry!!) and wilted to the current new ones tt are in bloom, Marpig didnt do anyth xcept watering as well as chatting to them for a few sec each dae (like asking them how they r feeling, whether they are thristy or too hot)

Ya noe, plants do have feelings and are able to sense humanz feelings too!! So says 《艳阳少女》 by 北条司 and also sm scientific studies!!

As it was, Marpig left the wilted flowers intact and did not trim them away. Why? Itz one of Marpigz weaknesses... she just cannot let go...

Being such a "thoughtful" person, she thought to herself, "those wilted ones will feel lonely and sad if they are being cut off", "they will be painful if being cut", etc. Silly thoughts really but but!!

However, one thought strikes her out of the blue and the next moment, she picked up a pair of scissors and carefully cut the dead flowers away!! *ouch ouch ouch!!*

TT thought was a very practical one; if the dead flowers are not cut away, the nutrients will still go up the stem and other healthy flowers will get less. Also, as wat Marpig had said previously, plants can feel and are aware of their surroundings. And so, if the wilted flowers are still there, the healthy ones may feel sad to see their frens dead

Obviously, after cutting the dead ones away, Marpig actually touched the fresh "wounds" and asked the plant if it hurts hahahahaha

Putting it back on the window sill, Marpig realised wat she has done is actually like a parable to a lesson in life and tt is~~ letting go!!

As it was, Marpig came a long way to actually let go of certain ths she held onto for many yrs

The dead flowers are like the ths/memories/pple we are reluctant to let go and kept holding on to. The new flowers in bloom represent the new events, xperiences, people, memories, etc as all of us continue with lifez journey. Seeing the flowers, both dead and alive together, is like a quintessence of wat Marpig am good at; holding onto the past while prodding on with life

Just like the nutrients to the flowers tt are no longer there, Marpig used to devote time/energy to feeling sad over ths she cant change or pple she cant bring back. Although she xperienced new ths, make new frens, etc like the new blooming flowers, the past still haunts her, or more like she allowed the past to haunt her

Coming to the decision to cut away the dead flowers itz like shez letting go of the past now and enjoying wat shez been blessed with (no matter how leetle or alot) fully as much as she can *smiles*

To JM, reflections is bout talking to oneself isnt it?! :D

Ah~~ ya noe, the happy sun does makes one happy and optimistic!!

B4 ending this entry, itz midsummer dae tomorrow!! 21st June!! :D
The longest dae in the entire yr!!

Wednesday, June 9

原来分手也可以很有创意

每当七月接近时, Marpig 都会变得比较 melancholy。。。

Anyw, 好久没有用华语来写个 entry 了。最近看了一些香港网页; 大多都是香港哪里有好吃的。虽然用的字和语言是粤语, 但幸好 Marpig 的粤语程度还不错, 所以 "没问题" (in cantonese)!! :P

也不知道为什么忽然会想用华语来写个 entry。可能是因为华语比起英语, 更能将标题的幽默感带出来吧。。。

最近, Marpig 有个同事和他的女朋友分手了。为了 simplicity, 就叫那个男的 A, 女的 B 吧。Marpig 也算认识 B, 因为大家都有一起出来玩。B 也常常主动在 msn 和 Marpig 聊天。

聊什么? Well, 她会常常跟 Marpig 诉苦, 说她和 A 吵架, 说 A 其实脾气很坏, 说 long distance relationship 很难维持 (A 在 UK, B 在文莱. 因为 B 只是在 UK 读书, 读完了, 当然就回去了), 说 A 不够爱她, etc etc。但是 Marpig 只有听, 没有给太多的意见。因为始终是别人的感情, 外人不宜 "擦只脚" (cantonese)。更何况, B 说 A 的那些缺点, 又非 Marpig 所觉得。In fact, 完全相反!! 有一次, A 还托 Marpig (的信用卡) 在网上订了一束花给 B!!

Anyw, Marpig 从 B 的 msn nick, 知道其实她可能已经喜欢上别人了。

但 A 完全不知情, 也不知道其实 B 常对 Marpig 说他的不是。有时候, Marpig 觉得 B 可能是故意对 Marpig 诉苦, 想利用 Marpig。以为 Marpig
既然是 A 的同事 + 可能是个八卦的人, 会将她所说的话告诉 A 来打小报告。Too bad Marpig 不是。哈!!

就是因为这个小插曲, Marpig 才会 "胡思乱想", 想写写分手可以有多么的 creative。虽然 Marpig 分手的经验不多 (谁要阿?! 靠!!), 但分手, 不论男女, 是一种不需要累积经验, 都能精通的一门"艺术"。这就是它的奥妙之处!! :P

***BTW, 以下所有的分手方式, 男女都通用(他/她)。+ 虽然不是纯属虚构, 但也请大家不要 copycat, umk?! (reference 还可以 :P)***

先从有良心的分手方式开始。这种分手方式通常都是那些情场浪子, 浪漫忧郁, 自信满满或超级梦幻的人所爱用的。Oh, 那些叫 "萝卜头" 的也蛮喜欢用这几招。

For e.g., 比较圆滑的人, 为了 the good of all, 会用这一句, "
为了你, 为了大家"。Otherwise, 这句也不错, "你我都沒有錯"。(Then?! 是月亮惹的祸囉!!)

耍酷的人, 大多都会说,
把自由还给你" "我不配"。而你只能感叹你爱上像周杰伦这样的人。

那些超有内疚感的人就会跟你说是他
对不起你, 全是他的错 or 不是他不爱你, 是他不想拖累你
(其实他希望你知道接下来的歇后语是: "你放了我吧"!!)

像星爷那样情圣的人, 他会赞美你, 比如说, "你对我太好"。他也会让你觉得他还爱着你 by saying 像这样 drama-mama 的话, "我太爱你, 所以我选择放手, 让你去追求你的梦想"。总之他怎么说, 只有一个字可以形容, "绝"!! :P

讲到这里, 你是不是会有点好奇, Marpig 会用哪一招呢? (管你好不好奇, Marpig 就是要讲!! :P) 无论是分手还是爱恋, Marpig 都会用这句, "
爱一个人, 不一定要和他在一起。。。"
哈哈哈!!

Marpig 也有可能会这样做:

制造情调 by playing Kylie Minoguez "love @ 1st sight" 然后跟那个人说, 歌里面那个 "blew your mind" 的人不是他。之后, 当他还处于震惊的状态就马上撤退!! :P


接下来, 就是比较没良心的分手方式。

大多数人一定会同意榜首是: 要分手的那个人超挑剔, 列出你全部有没有的缺点!! 就连你家人(不想用 "妈", 因为听起来像在骂粗话!!) 都不知道!!

Of cos, 排行第二也是蛮 common 的一句话。而且通常都会是在你很开心的提早下班, 赶 teksi 去 meet 他赶到快要断气的时候发生。一看到你, 他马上就来一句, "
你总是没时间陪我"。搞到你 102% abs "甲卜球" (Hokkein) why like tt?!

接下来就开始不三不四了。先有
"我没安全感", 再来 "你没有幽默感 = 和你在一起好闷"。但是, 因为你(可能)是个 "闷包", 所以他这么说, 你也很可能不会给他太大的脸部 "惊喜"。*yawns~*

而那些人五人六的会跟你说他不再爱你。虽然你已经很痛了, 但他再来一脚, 跟你说他爱上另一个。简直就是在你的伤口上撒盐。消毒 meh?!


还有那些背叛你 or 你背叛他的。But ultimately, 这只是看谁比较厉害, 可以先发制人!!

以上这么多多姿多彩的招数, 怎么可以少了这个经典戏剧性的一句, "
你对我好, 但是你对别人也一样好!! 我只想你对我一个人好~~!!" (太感动了!! 哈哈哈!! duh。)

嗨~~ 总之当你像
孙燕姿那样, 知道你的另一半 "喜新厌旧" 时, 你应该对着大海说 《我不难过》, 准没错。


最后, (要完了啦!! 继续读!!) 就剩下一些令人觉得很纳闷又
半天吊的分手方式。总之就是不懂搞什么屁!!

例如, 分手时, 你问他为什么。而他就偏偏像很多新加坡人在 foodcourt order 水那样, 回答你 "dont noe"。Everyth also dont noe。Then 他到底 noe 什么?! 靠!! 这样一个答案, 真的让人很想用 anyth 和 watever 来丢他!!

更有一些常常出去吃夜宵的情侣, "埋头苦吃" 到有一天, 其中一半忽然来一个, "我们的感情变淡了" or "我们之间没话题"。Tsk tsk tsk。都说不要吃太多 msg
囉~ 还有, 是谁说吃饭要不语的?!

懒人更厉害, 不是跟你说他累了, 就是跟你说是天意。还好勤奋的会花一点时间和精神去
找一万个借口, 避而不见你。

Finally, 聪明的, 为了让你 totally 没戏唱, 会跟你说
你们的性格不合。因为如果你说你会改, 他会很理直气壮的拿 leopard 出来跟你解释 tt itz spots will never change。

Umk!! Marpig 终于都写完这个 bloggie entry 了!! 哇!! 足足花了好几天 (因为每天都好懒惰, 只写几个字)!! 以下是一个冷笑话和一个等着答案的问题 to wrap up。。。

(Conversation btw
光良 + 张学友)

光良: 是你变了吗? 对你的感觉应该停止吧 (lyrics from
《是你变了吗》)
张学友: *大声地喊* 忘记你我做不到!! (lyrics from 《
忘记你我做不到》)

Q: 分手后, 有可能做好朋友吗?

Saturday, June 5

Jurassic Coast (Part 2 - Orientation, Lulworth Cove & Stair Hole)

Now is the serious part!! Bcos therez much to see along the Jurassic Coast + Marpig wanted to give readers a visual idea of the places she photographed and trotted, below is an orientation map with bits of notes (click on photo to see it bigger and clearer!!) which Marpig created
A quick summary on the above, Marpig and frens started on the rightmost Lulworth Cove and continued along the coast in a leftwrdly direction. Notice a dashed blue line? TTz the path (see pics later) which one would need to take to 爬过 the 山 to get over to the other side for Durdle Door (shortcut) Huh? Yellow dot? Watz tt? If u clicked on the pic, u would see the note but otherwise, read on to find out!!

Having parked the car @ the Heritage Information Centre (didnt check in hotel but decided on xploring 1st!!) Marpig & frens walked ard and saw a cow eating ice cream outside an ice cream parlour. So farny, like the pic of a hot dog pouring tomato sauce on itself which Marpig saw in Munich (refer to Munich entries)
Also saw a tree full of buckets hanging on itz branches. Reminded Marpig so much of the 许愿树 in those TVB dramas!! :DThe next pic is for JM!! Meaow~~ *pawing* 2 golden retrievers *pat pat* (+ a crying bb)!!
Back to the information centre and overlooking the mountain (refer to the orientation map), one would see the shortcut path (the blue dashed line) HOWEVER!! A bitter truth; Marpig & frens DID NOT noe tt this is the shortcut then!!
Anyw, on Marpigz encouragement, frens and Marpig started climbing up the mountain via this path. Ya noe, 欲穷千里目,更上一层楼!!
Marpig wasnt doing too badly, considering she hadnt been xercising much. Itz pretty steep (Marpigz std cos shez afraid of heights la) and omg, the wind was so strong tt it did wobble Marpig a leetle when she stood upright!! The path wasnt difficult but heu!! Marpig wore the wrong shoes for the occasion!! Tsk tsk tsk!! Stone path + rain = slippery on Camper shoes!! :S

Anyw, managed to reach 3/4 of the submit and looked back @ her "achievement"
Lulworth Cove is slightly visible in the distance on the right side...
Going higher and reaching the highest point on the mountain, one would see Lulworth Cove on the left and the BIG sea. Notice the weather was crap but wat to do, itz the UK!!

After reaching the submit and almost out of breath, they went down again, not knowing tt itz a shortcut + the clouds are lower and the rain are falling which reduced visibility. Wasted!!

Once below, they saw another high viewing point overlooking Lulworth Cove which they went up (为了艺术照!!) Reaching the other viewing point, 2 interesting signs greeted Goldie:
Bar-B-Ques on top of the cliffs?! Well, let Marpig light a match in this gale 1st... hahahahaha
Very true... rescuers also have families... And, there are really cases where tourists in the UK fell to their deaths while trying to take super duper 艺术照 of themselves cliff-hanging, etc. Of cos, Marpig am not tt silly/daring!! Gosh... itz HIGH!! *palpitating heart*

Moving on (refer to the orientation map) to the left of Lulworth Cove, is the Stair Hole (pic below). Dont ask why itz got a name like tt cos Marpig also dont noe. Anyw, itz supposed to be a "young" cove tt will be bout the size of Lulworth Cove in another few hundred thousand yrs (dont think Marpig will live to see tt. Wat. A. Pity.) :P
Next is a pic of Lulworth Cove atop the viewing point. Therez also the stone which "commemorates the inscription of the Dorset and East Devon Coast on the World Heritage List of the Convention concerning the Protection of the World Cultural and Natural Heritage" by the Prince of Wales (Prince Charles) on 3rd Oct 2002
Going down to the cafe by Lulworth Cove, Marpig just cannot resist taking her 背影 again as well as doing a~~
falling-down-the-slope stunt!! :D *beaming*

Coming up next will be the highlight of the trip (or more like wat makes Marpig want to visit Jurassic Coast in the 1st place!!) *grinning xxxcitedly*

Tuesday, June 1

Jurassic Coast!! (Part 1 - Ard and Accomo)

Was feeling Marpig hasnt been to many UNESCO places but actually she did!! In fact, out of the 28 UNESCO places in the UK, she had already been to 7!! And, sm of them she went with Marpigz dad, sis and frens too!! E.g., Stonehenge, city of Bath, Kew Gardens, Maritime Greenwich, Tower of London, Westminster Abbey and the latest, Jurassic Coast!!

B4 sharing Marpigz collection of 艺术照 in this bloggie entry and in a few more tt follow, a leetle bit bout the Jurassic Coast

1st th 1st, therez NO dinos. Well, not really true, therez a museum with fossils and the 1st complete Ichthyosaur fossil was found there. But Marpig didnt go to the museum since her trip was only 2D1N. So where is this coast u asked? Itz on the English Channel coast of southern England, stretching from East Devon to East Dorset (153km)

Dingko Nut will be interested to noe tt the entire coast can be walked on the South West Coast Path!! Itz a pity tt Marpig went with 2 frens who arent really tt gungho (then again, not many pple can tahan Marpigz kinda gungho and madness!! :P) Hence, she didnt do tt long walk

In addition, this World Heritage Site is entirely natural and blimey!! Itz 180 mil yrs old!!

The entire site also boasts many xcellent xamples of landforms from mil of yrs ago which Marpig visited sm!! Shall reveal them ylwosl!! Not all though, since Marpig only visited bout 65-75% of itz entire length!!

Started the dae early and drove in the persistent rain... wat rubbish weather but ho hum. Itz not smth uncommon. But u noe, 祸不单行!! The carz wiper wasnt doing itz job properly!! Luckily frens have RAC and it wasnt too long (bout 30 mins) b4 the hero comes rescuing the trio!! Not too bad considering the weather AND the trio being stranded on an A-road with no buildings but fields ard!!Oh yes, must mention this; Marpig uses her mobile Google map app!! Therez the TomTom but really, wat TomTom can do, Google map can too and Marpig felt itz so much faster and easier to use!!

Anyw, frens and Marpig drove to Weymouth, passing through nice villages (didnt use motorways cos they are boorriinngg~~) When the trio were almost in Weymouth, they saw many such cottagey houses with roofs which Marpig found so cute!! Watz the name for them?! Any1 noes?!Also passed by green pastures and fields littered with yellow daisies as well as a group of holidaying equestrians (young & old, on horses and ponies!!)
Good ths bout using the A-roads are tt therez always ths to see but the cumbersome thingy was when the car in front (unidirectional single lane) went at a snailz pace
But hey!! TT vintage car is brilliant!! :D In fact, on a road like tt with the vintage car, Marpig really felt like shez back to the 1960s!! (though she was never born then :P) Majiam like 拍戏!! hahahahahah

Finally, the trio reached Lulworth Heritage Centre!!
And so they went in to grab sm free maps showing places to visit along the Jurassic Coast!!

Oh oh, as itz Marpigz style, her travel journals are normally divided into separate chapters based mainly on photos tt chronicle her journeys as well as the interesting xperiences whilst on the go. This trip 也不例外!! Shall start with accomo 1st!!

Wanted to stay @ The Lulworth Cove Inn, which is 5+ mins away from the Lulworth Cove but cos itz the May bank hol, therez no vacancies!! :S
And so the trio stayed at The Sun Inn, which basically is a B&B above a pub. Both the pub and B&B are owned by the same boss which he runs with his wife. They had a daughter as well as a very well-behaved German Shepard called Ben. :P Although not close (need to drive bout 30mins) to Lulworth Cove, but itz in the city of Weymouth which is a gateway to the Jurassic Coast. So all is not lost!!
Above is the Sun Inn. Notice the ground floor pub (where bf are served in the morn), the 1st floor private residential accomo (where the owner & family live) and the 2nd floor guest accomo

Therez more than 1 good ths bout staying here actually, 1st, itz near to Weymouth train station, bout less than 10 mins walk. Then itz directly opp~~
A chinese takeaway rest as well as Dominoz!! (read; nighttime supper!!) Plus, not only does it overlooks the beach in Weymouth, itz only 5mins to the beach!! (see photo tt follows) Yeah!!
Being a small family biz, therez only 5 guest rooms and all of them are named after the major oceans in the world. Frens & Marpig were staying in Atlantic, just bside Indian (ocean) :P
The ensuite...
With the shower
This room was in fact, the biggest of all with a 4-post bed (to ang mohs, tt is smwat posh since beds with posts are like the Victorian age(?)) Had an inflatable additional bed but in the end, trio managed to sleep comfortably on the big bed. Ooo~~ here comes an 艺术照!!
Hahahaha majiam like a snapshot from those steamy movies :P
See tt?! The beach is just a stonez throw away!! :D Notice the clock tower on the beach?
This is it!! Had a morning stroll alone on the quiet beach the next dae whilst frens were still getting ready for bf. The scenary is similar to other beach hotels and B&B along the UKz beaches. Very much like in the 1960s old UK and as described in the Enid Blyton books!!

The common traits includes:
All hotels & B&B facing the beach
There are also seaside funfair with rides, cotton candies, donuts, etc etc etc
Moving onto the beach...
One would see puppet show (not open yet)
Mini roller coaster for the toddlers!!
And also the fabulistic sand sculptures!! The above is just one of the many many sand sculptures xhibited on this beach over the yrs!! Ah!! Marpig simply love the Red Queen!!

"Off with his head!!" :D